Wednesday, February 17, 2016

iPlay Valentine's Party

Last week we went to an inflatable playground for a little playtime and a Valentine's party:
Owen spent the whole time in the toddler area...
...I tried to convince him to give the inflatables a shot, but this is literally as far as I could get him to go. He refused to step foot inside.
Heidi had fun bouncing though.
The kids also decorated cookies,
made Valentine's,
and took silly pictures.
Oh yeah, and Heidi got her face painted.

Tuesday, February 2, 2016

Follow Up On Emily's Reading List

Two weeks ago I posted a list of 10 books that I read over winter break. Since then I've read another 9. They're all juvenile fiction written for middle school-age readers (so they're all quick, easy reads). 

Having Sarah stay with us for 9+ weeks inspired me to want to read more about disabilities: what it's like to have a disability, how family members are affected by disability, etc. These are almost entirely fictional stories, but here are some quick recaps in case anyone is looking for a good read.

These first two are told from the perspective of individuals with disabilities:
  • Out of My Mind (Sharon Draper) - This story is narrated by a girl with cerebral palsy. She is in fifth grade. She's very intelligent, but because she's nonverbal and doesn't have the motor skills to be able to sign she can't communicate, and everyone at her school assumes she's mentally retarded. She finally finds assistive technology that gives her a voice, and she gets a teacher who advocates for her inclusion in general education classes. The book documents the social barriers to inclusion as well as other obstacles faced by individuals with disabilities.
  • My Thirteenth Winter (Samantha Abeel) - This is a really interesting memoir (true story) from a girl with a learning disability. She narrates her struggles--academic, emotional, and social--from elementary school through college. Having taught special education, I really appreciated learning about how a learning disability can affect a person's life so profoundly.
These four are told from the perspective of siblings of individuals with disabilities:
  • Rules (Cynthia Lords) - This is a story about the sister of a boy with severe autism. She's in middle school, so she is eager to make friends, but it's hard for her to fit in. She's fiercely loyal to her brother but also embarrassed by his behaviors. A significant portion of the narrative also revolves around a non-verbal quadriplegic boy that she befriends while in the waiting room at her brother's therapy each week.
  • Al Capone Does My Shirts (Gennifer Choldenko) - This story is told from the perspective of a twelve-year-old boy who has a sister with severe autism. The family moves to a different city in hopes of getting the sister into a special school, which turns the whole family's life upside down. He is also her caregiver for several hours after school each day.
  • Summer of the Swans (Betsy Byars) - This story is told by a fourteen-year-old girl whose younger brother is autistic. The narrative mostly focuses on a short period of time  in which the brother gets lost in the woods and is missing for the better part of a day. 
  • Welcome Home, Jellybean (Marlene Shyar) - This story is told by a twelve-year-old boy whose older sister comes home after being institutionalized for her entire life. She has severe disabilities. The book is all about the family's struggle to adapt. 
In all four books, you see both the good and the bad of having a sibling with profound disabilities. In each case, the characters are fiercely loyal to and love their siblings with disabilities--but it isn't easy for them to fit in socially and have a normal life.

This one is similar, as it is told from the perspective of a niece of someone with a disability:
  • A Corner of the Universe (Ann M. Martin) - This story is narrated by a twelve-year-old girl who didn't even know she had a "mentally ill" uncle until the summer that his out-of-state school shuts down and he returns home while his parents search for another placement for him. This book has a lot of similar themes to the others, in that the narrator loves and advocates for her uncle when much of the rest of society sees him as a "freak."
And finally, these two are companion books to the Wonder book that I read and loved over winter break:
  • Auggie & Me AND 365 Days of Wonder (R. J. Palacio) - Between Wonder and these two companion books, the same story is told from 10 perspectives. The story revolves around a fifth grade boy with severe craniofacial anomolies. The books are all about his adjustment to attending middle school and how he is received by the other students and teachers, and how they are challenged and changed by his presence. There is also some focus on his older sister who is transitioning to high school and how her brother's surgeries and physical differences have impacted her life.
Anyway, I am drawing to the end of my binge reading spree. I have about 6 more books waiting for me, and then I will be returning to work next month. That, coupled with the new baby scheduled to make its debut in two months, it's unlikely that I'll have much free time for a while. 


Friday, January 29, 2016

Austin Zoo

Today we went to the zoo for Aunt Sarah's birthday. The temperature was in the 70s, so it was a perfect day for it.
I think Sarah was excited. :)
Monkeys

Free range peacocks
These goats were almost as big as horses. Crazy.
Baby deer
Giant Yorkshire pig
Porcupines
Galapagos tortoises
I was scolded for letting Owen chase this rooster. Oops.

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Texas Memorial Museum

We went to the natural history museum on UT campus this morning. The museum showcases 5.7 million collected specimens from research conducted at the university--including prehistoric life, evolution, rocks and minerals, and Texas wildlife.
It was a little chilly today, but we're looking forward to highs in the 70s for the rest of the week! :)
Texas Pterosaur in the Great Hall
This is my favorite picture of the day. Isn't this kid cute?
Hall of Geology and Paleontology

Hall of Texas Wildlife

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Peanuts

This is Sarah's birthday week, so we kicked it off with a trip to the movie theater to see the new Peanuts movie. Sarah's Uncle Seth was one of the animators. :)

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Laguna Gloria Exhibit

We went to the Laguna Gloria once before with some friends, but we went back again today to check out an exhibit that I read about. It's been on display since September, and this was the last week to go and see it.
Sarah was drawn to this fountain when we entered the grounds. The bunny is crying, and its tears fill the well below.
This is called Looking Up. It's pretty impressive. For one thing, it's huge--even taller than the 3-story villa in the background. But it's also made out of crushed aluminum foil roasting pans, which is kind of interesting.
 But anyway, the exhibit we went to see was called "A retrospective view of the pathway, 2008-2015." I won't even pretend to understand modern art, but the kids and Sarah really enjoyed this foam machine:
The machine turns on just 3 times a week for the duration of the exhibit and churns out bubbles for 30-45 minutes.


Owen, who is very fastidious about cleanliness, hung back for the most part.
After a few minutes, even Sarah got into it.

And this is what it looked like from a distance. Whenever the wind blew, it would pick up clouds of bubbles and carry them off.
After about 20 minutes or so, the girls were soaked and cold and ready to go home. But they had a lot of fun.

Mayfield Park

We have been to Mayfield Preserve once before, but we went back today so that Sarah could see the peacocks--and because we wanted to check out an art exhibit at the Laguna Gloria next door.





Emily's Reading List

So I've been doing a lot of reading over the past month. So much so that I'm slightly embarrassed about it. (I mean, there are probably more productive things I should be doing with my time.) But MCC ended right before Christmas, which has really freed up my evenings after the kids are in bed. Scott's been really busy, and Sarah occupies the TV most nights, so I read for lack of anything better to do. And I read pretty quickly, so I can usually knock out a book in just a day or two. So I'm posting what I've read here in case any of my sisters are looking for something to read:

These are my most embarrassing reads. Not that there's anything wrong with them; it's just that they're fictional and don't have a ton of substance to them. 
  • Love Comes Softly series (8 books) - I actually started this back in August before MCC started. It's a series of Christian pioneer novels. They're a lot like Little House on the Prairie. Michael Landon also turned them into movies, which I haven't watched yet. Like I said, they're not a deep read, but they're fun light reading.
  • Little Men - Little Women is one of my favorite American novels, and this is a sequel. It follows Jo and her husband, Professor Baer, and their school for boys. It's very moralistic (like Little Women is also) but good.
  • Death Comes to Pemberley - This is a mystery-type novel based off of Pride and Prejudice characters. It takes place six years, I think, after Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennett are married. It was interesting.
None of these novels are particularly deep, so I'm kind of embarrassed to admit to reading them. Sometimes I debate the benefit of reading fiction nowadays. Is it any better than just watching TV? But there you go.

Happiness Project - I read this one for a book club that is going to meet tomorrow. It was fine. Didn't love it, didn't hate it. It was a pretty good read for the start of a new year. It's about a woman who sets a bunch of resolutions for herself and spends a year documenting her progress. It made me think a lot of Preach My Gospel Chapter 8: set goals/make plans.

These next three books are about parenting. This was probably my most constructive read. The first one looks at French parenting, the second one looks at Amish parenting, and the third one is a controversial memoir of one Chinese mother who really pushes her daughters to excel academically and musically. All three authors are pretty much in agreement that American parents do a terrible job of raising their kids, but I enjoyed reading about different cultures' approaches to parenting and considering some of my own beliefs and practices. (And I really enjoyed learning more about the Amish! I respect them a lot.) 
Wonder - This is my favorite read so far. It's fiction, but I still feel like it was a productive use of my time. It was all about a 10-year-old boy who was born with severe craniofacial abnormalities but who is very bright. When the novel opens, his mother encourages him to attend a private middle school. (He has been home schooled his entire life up to this point.) The book is all about his integration into middle school and how he is received by the other students. One cool thing about the book is that there are several sections in which you get to hear different characters' points of view. I really liked how this helped me to understand where different characters were coming from and why they act the way they do. I especially liked hearing the older sister's point of view. The main theme of the book emphasized kindness, which is one of my favorite themes. I really recommend this one.

Next up:
  • Rules (Cynthia Lord) 
  • Out of My Mind (Sharon Draper) 
  • Auggie & Me (R. J. Palacio) 
  • 365 Days of Wonder (R. J. Palacio) 
  • Counting by 7s (Holly Goldberg Sloan) 
  • Of Mice and Men (John Steinbeck) 
  • Al Capone Does My Shirts (Gennifer Choldenko)
All of these are somehow related to disabilities, since I enjoyed my Wonder read so much. (Not that the character in Wonder is disabled--because he's not--but the book explores what it's like to be different and how people do and should react to differences in others.)

And I really should come up with a new hobby! (Like, I should probably catch up on scrap booking or do family history or devote more time to comprehensive gospel study or something more productive.) What does everyone else do in the evenings after the kids are in bed / after work?


P.S. Can I just say how much I love the public library! I read 10 books in the past month without spending a cent! :)

Family Night Bonfire


Liz lost yet another tooth on Sunday. She looks a bit like a pirate, doesn't she? :)


Saturday, January 16, 2016

Mt. Playmore






Sneaky

I have a bottle of red sprinkles that I keep in the pantry for decorating birthday cakes and cupcakes. One day this week Heidi brought the almost empty container to me and said: "Mom, someone was eating your sprinkles." Hm... I wonder who it could have been?


Thursday, January 14, 2016

Toothless

Liz's tooth has been loose for weeks now. Yesterday she decided that it was finally time for it to come out. After a lot (like, 45-minutes worth) of anxiety- and tear-provoking wiggling, Dad came home from bishopric meeting and yanked it out with dental floss.
Lizzie was thrilled. This makes 3 lost teeth plus 2 more wiggly ones to come out soon.
This clip is a little long, but right around 1:15 her instant transformation from terrified to elated is priceless.

Bidding Farewell to Our Christmas Tree

Rather than just recycle our tree, Scott wanted to chop it up and use it for firewood--so a bonfire and some s'mores are in our near future:


Scott even fashioned a Harry Potter-inspired wand for Sarah out of the tip of the trunk (not pictured here).